Kerry dePenaloza
Mr. Leake
Writing 1133
19 April 2013
Connections
with Food
It
would be hard to imagine a life without food.
Maybe we were to get our nutrition from something way out of the
ordinary. The good thing is, we do not
have to imagine this because life is full of food. Some do not understand how food affects
life. The nutritional value of food is
widely known, but the major aspect of food that is so important to every day
life is how it brings people together.
Author Susan Barocas states, “’eating together nourishes more than just
our bodies.’” Food can bring a family together for a family dinner and food can
even connect you with loved ones from miles away.
All
throughout my life, food has brought my family together. With two parents that were raised with routine
family dinners, it went without saying that they would raise my family in the same
manor. Sadly, in American culture today,
the concept of a family dinner is going out the window. Some do not understand the importance of
having routine family dinners throughout the week. Damayanit Datta wrote an article on the
importance of routine family dinner, and he states, “Family mealtime has a
wealth of heath benefits. Research shows
that children who eat more meals together with their parents tend to eat more
fruits, vegetables, fiber, calcium rich food, vitamins, and less junk
food.” As a parent, it is essential for
your child to grow up to be healthy and strong. Having routine family dinners plays a crucial
role in the development of a child both physically and mentally. Having been raised with routine family
dinners, my parents knew this and planned on having routine family dinners
multiple times during the school week.
Not only are routine family dinners better for the health of a child,
but also “studies show children are less likely to smoke, drink, do drugs, get
depressed, develop eating disorders, and commit suicide.” (Datta). Food and routine family dinners are
undoubtedly two extremely important aspects to the development of a child. Unfortunately, times have changed, and with
time so has the idea of routine family dinners.
I
remember my mother telling me about her childhood and the way my grandparents
went about having routine family dinners about a year ago. She told me about how no one missed the
family dinners and if someone did, it was not looking good for them. My grandparents and all my aunts and uncles
loved family dinners because it was a time for everyone in the family to catch
up with each other after a long day of work and school. In Frank Burge’s article “Kiss Family Dinner
Goodbye” he reiterates what my mother told me about her childhood by saying,
“All members of the family gathered around the kitchen table, shared a good
meal…and shared interesting conversation.”
This remark by Burge just goes to show that my mother’s childhood was
like that of many children across the country at that time. Burge talks about the role that the parent’s
line of work played in family dinners in the past. Most people now a day are trying to make more
money, which means longer workdays. However
Burge says, “most fathers…wanted to earn a decent living for a honest day’s
work.” According to my mother, there was
nothing more that my grandfather wanted then to come home from an honest days
work to a delicious family dinner prepared by my grandmother. The attitude towards making money and being
successful has changed significantly over the years. More people focus on earning money rather
then making what is necessary to live a happy life.
Growing
up, my parents were always home in time to prepare dinner for my older brother
and me. My parents tried not to repeat
dishes during the week, unless of course we requested a specific one. Throughout my life I have had many different
meals, whether they be home cooked or at a restaurant. My parents are both one of six and they were
raised with some of the incredible dishes made by my grandparents. The recipes for these dishes have been saved,
passed down, and they have been a major part of my life. I could write the best cookbook about all the
amazing dishes that I have had over years, and I have yet to have every single
meal that is in the recipe book in my kitchen.
However, there are two dishes in particular that mean a lot to me. The first dish is only served in my family
twice a year. It is served for Christmas brunch and it is served for Easter
brunch. There really is no name for this
dish, at least that I know of, but the dish consist of a delicious poached egg,
thinly sliced honey baked ham all on an open face, toasted English muffin,
fresh Brie cheese and topped with fresh parsley. This dish has a large significance to me both
culturally and within my family because I only have this dish with my
family. Whenever I have the dish, I am
immediately reminded of all the great times I have spent with my family around
the dinner table eating this unique delicacy.
The poached egg
and ham dish has been passed down my mother’s side of the family and over the
years it has become creamier and cheesier because of my mother’s love for white
food. In “Eating White” by Geoff
Nicholson he talks about his mothers love for white food and states, “My mother
was a Catholic…I’ve often wondered whether she made some connection between
food and purity: white food meant a white soul.” My mother was raised in a very strong Irish Catholic
family and I know my grandmother loved white and creamy dishes as well. I’ve often thought about this after reading
Nicholson’s piece and it makes a whole lot of sense. The second dish that makes me think of my
family, especially my grandmother, is the best Irish corn beer and cabbage dish
you could ask for. My grandmother always
prepared this dish for dinner on Easter and that was the only time it was
served. My grandmother recently passed
away and it came as a shock to everyone in my family. Since she always prepared the meal, the
impact this dish has made on my life and the lives of my family has changed us
all for the better. From this point on,
every time that specific dish is served, my grandmother will be the first and
last thought in my head.
After
some serious thinking, I began to ask myself the question “How big of an effect
does food have on memories?” This is
certainly another one of the great effects of food that not many people fully
understand, rather fully realize. I
recently wrote a short essay about the local restaurant South Philly located on
University Blvd. between Asbury St. and Evans St. While eating my sandwich there, I asked
myself the same question, “How big of an effect does food have on
memories?” I know that the effect that
food has on memories quite significant for me, especially with the two unique
and delicious dishes I have at Easter and at Christmas. When I have these dishes I am immediately
brought back to times I have shared with loved ones, times full of laughter and
joy. I think that the Philly cheese
steak has a similar effect on people. In
“Food Facts and Footnotes,” written Robin Lee Allen, she talks about the
development of the restaurant industry in America. Among the things she talks about, a section
of it is about the infamous Philly cheese steak sandwich. Allen writes, “Brothers Pat and Harry
Olivieri of Philadelphia in 1930 created a grilled-steak sandwich with hot
sauce on Italian bread. A decade later
they added cheese, giving birth to the Philadelphia cheese-steak.” Clearly this sandwich has some history behind
it. The sandwich became so famous that
they are now “offered widely in sandwich shops and chains nationwide.” (Allen).
A Philadelphia native could eat a Philly cheese steak sandwich and be brought
back home with the amazing powers of food.
In fact, some one who has never even been to Philadelphia could eat a
properly made Philly cheese steak and he or she would just get a taste of
Philadelphia through the amazing powers that food has. Examples like these show the incredible,
sometimes unknown, abilities that food has to offer.
In
conclusion, family dinners are fighting a losing battle and things need to
change. Family dinners are essential in
keeping a family strong, and there is nothing better then creating memories
around the table. So many of my best
memories have been made around the dinner table with my loved ones. Food is such a powerful aspect of life. It has some many powers that people may not
realize yet. In Heather Leah
Huddleston’s article “The Power of Food” she writes about, you guessed it, the
power of food. Huddleston writes, “There
is no doubt that food is a powerful ritual in out society. People congregate around food; they come
together, socialize, and catch up...it is a powerful mood changer that can
include positive or negative responses.”
The powers of food is something that should not be taken for
granted. Food can inflict emotional
responses brought on by nothing else.
With one simple bight, you can be brought right back home. The connections created by food are extremely
powerful.
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